The relay output node in NodeRed supported the relay in the MPPT solarcharger. Unfortunately, Victron wrotes in the 2020 documentation that this feature will be implemented later. But there is no change in the MPPT firmware to support this.
It is confusing for users that support is available in node red, but the solarcharger does not respond to it. Unfortunately, the Cerbo does not have a relay that supports 230V AC, but some MPPT's do.